Introducing
the love of my life, Monsieur Christophe! Although he considers himself an International,
I like to think of him as a true "pioneer". He has lived in so many interesting
places (Brazil, Africa, France...) but for some strange reason someone in the heavens
decided to bring him to Southern California to meet moi! Did he fully realize he'd be
exchanging the busy Parisian life-style with all its hustling and bustling subways for
that of a common freeway commuter in LA? Probably not. Did he really conceptualize that
instead of the Eiffel Tower or the majestic Pyramids, he'd ultimately settle for
gang-related graffiti and smog infested valleys for his view? One can only guess. One
thing is known - he never intended to fall in love in the States! Let me tell you what
I've learned about him...
He was the first French person I
came to know personally.He is such a gentle soul. At first, I mistook his gentle qualities
as weaknesses, but he is in no way weak. He possesses the courage of freedom and purposely
exposes himself to new situations and places. I also thought him naive, but I've come to
understand that he is simply from another place where life is more complex- more
satisfying and rich. The United States is so harsh in comparison. Being a product of the
US, I am probably also harsh by comparison.
In fact, for him, meeting me was
like a baptism by blood into the reality of life in the West. He was not accustomed to our
direct (American) qualities and brutal frankness. Even though he admires America and likes
to think of himself as a cowboy in a rough saloon, he is still, after all, the gentle
Frenchman more at home in a cozy cafe than he is on the harsh freeways of the New
Frontier.
What I appreciate most about
him, other than his open mind and positively, is his ever-present sense of humor. Life is
never sad for long as he has the ability to always see the humor in everything life throws
our way. Not that he is constantly cracking jokes - he just "exists" sort of
comically. He is also an extremely hard worker and has a great many personal interests.
What can I say...he's great!